Another ‘in the bus’ story.
Was coming home from work in a sardined bus this afternoon…and this Chinese lady being typical Chinese was telling her 20+ year old son…
Lady: We spend so much for you, when you grow up…you must take care of dad and I you know? Don’t be like your brother…
*translated from Cantonese*
And she kept nagging on and on.
Eh. Come on lah lady.
You and your significant other chooses to have a child
unless it was an accident but your poor child DID NOT choose to have you.
Bringing a child up is your own responsibility and your own decision.
Whether or not your child(ren) treats you back the way you treated them is of course, respect…but certainly NOT a duty.
If you want your child to care for you in the future, all you have to do is make sure of their upbringing and GAIN the respect from them. Afterall, you are what moulds your child.
Spread the love, yo!